I did not choose my wife. The spirit choose us to be together. Her mentor informed us before I knew anything. #PrimeRib
She took me to meet her Grandma Bebe for confirmation. I asked my mom, her mom and dad for permission and advice and wisdom. I was always transparent with her dad, and balance the duties of being a friend, peer and son-in-law.
There's a reason that I share this.
51% of all Blacks are unmarried and marrying much later even when this is how we become more functional as a people, allows us more wealth, stability and health, but we have been conditioned to be counterdependent and fixated on the games, the trap, the lights, the lures, the web, the tricks and nets.
55% of marriages all end in divorce and are difficult to ascertain as to it's being a created institute from divinity or civil unions. It's true depth and awareness is as a gift from God, as we come into existence as one, and close this chapter as two, with the potential to have an eternal legacy on this realm.
Discovering your reality, and finding the true extent to who you are, walking in your destiny, and measuring the alignment and compatibility that you have with others, internally and societally, while keeping a constant commitment to evolving emotionally, growing more spiritual and gaining scholarship into your self, allows you to achieve mastery of this realm, and attract those on the same frequency and vibe.
Dare to love unconditionally and strongly, without letting the trauma, pain, failures or abuse, stop you from being present, living joy and changing those in your sphere of influence and illuminated by your presence.
Find Your Number One. Never quit searching for the one that completes you.